The ongoing discussion about Wise Mind has led to some revelations to me regarding Emotion Mind. Emotion Mind is the state I am in when overcome by fear or blinded by anger towards myself or others. To be mindful is to be aware of the state of mind I am in. I cannot reason my way out of Emotion Mind. When I am in Emotion Mind, my vision of reality is distorted and I am more likely to behave in a way that I will later regret. When in Emotion Mind, I am particularly vulnerable to what my therapist refers to as "error thoughts" but many therapists refer to them as "cognitive distortions."
Marsha Linehan does not address these directly; however she addresses MYTHS. These "cognitive distortions" are really a form of Myths. Every human being experiences them in varying degrees.
THE TEN COGNITIVE DISTORTIONS
1. ALL OR NOTHING THINKING: You see things in black and white categories. If your performance falls short of perfect, you see yourself as a total failure.
2. OVERGENERALIZATION: You see a single negative event as a never-ending pattern of defeat.
3. MENTAL FILTER: You pick out a single negative detail and dwell on it exclusively so that your vision of all reality becomes darkened, like the drop of ink that discolors the entire beaker of water.
4. DISQUALIFYING THE POSITIVE: You reject positive experiences by insisting they "don't count" for some reason or other. In this way you can maintain a negative belief that is contradicted by your everyday experiences.
5. JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS: You make negative interpretations even though there are definite facts that convincingly support your conclusions.
6. MAGNIFICATION (Catastrophizing) OR MINIMIZATION: You exaggerate the importance of things (such as your goof-up or someone else's achievement), or you inappropriately shrink things until they appear tiny (your own desirable qualities or the other fellow's imperfections). This is also called the "binocular trick".
7. EMOTIONAL REASONING: You assume that your negative emotions necessarily reflect the way things really are: "I feel it, therefore it must be true".
8. SHOULD STATEMENTS: You try to motivate yourself with should and shouldn'ts, as if you had to be whipped and punished before you could expect to do anything. "Musts" and "oughts" are also offenders. The emotional consequence is guilt. When you direct should statements towards others, you feel anger, frustration, and resentment.
9. LABELING AND MISLABELING: This is an extreme form of overgeneralization. Instead of describing your error, you attach a negative label to yourself: "I'm a loser". When someone else's behavior rubs you the wrong way, you attach a negative label to him: "He's a damn louse". Mislabeling involves describing an event with language that is highly colored and emotionally loaded.
10. PERSONALIZATION: You see yourself as the cause of some negative external event which in fact you were not primarily responsible for.
||a. Mind reading: You arbitrarily conclude that someone is reacting negatively to you, and you don't bother to check this out.
||b. The Fortune Teller Error: You anticipate that things will turn out badly, and you feel convinced that your prediction is an established fact.
Based on information from "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David D. Burns, M.D.; Signet Paperback.